5.19.2004

lost it...got it back...moving forward...

mailman and i are back on the right track...yesterday...the relationship experienced some growing pains...last night...he made up beautifully...we have a greater understanding on the issue...

in our conversation regarding yesterday's issue...something else came up...

friends of the opposite sex...

i told him that i didn't have a problem w/ him having female friends...and i don't w/ conditions...i know...i sound like mia w/ her rules...at any rate...the conditions are that he is not hiding friendships from me...that i am properly introduced when appropriate...not that he has to go out of his way to introduce me to his friends...just if we happen to encounter one of his friends...i expect to be acknowledged...that he does not make me feel like i CAN'T be around him and his female friends...

he says that his last gf was threatened by his friendships w/ females...it's funny...as much as i have issues with trust...this is not a hang up of mine...go figure...