and as a good friend said to me recently, "sometimes, it's not even grass."
why are people always talking about they can't find a good man or a good woman, but always want to pursue someone who is already in a relationship? then...when they just so happen to get w/ that person...and the relationship is horrible and they are unhappy...they start tripping...i mean...didn't they get exactly what they asked for?...a relationship w/ someone who will lie and cheat?...u ALREADY knew when u asked to meet her/him that this person had a gf or bf or husband or wife or whatever...y not just respect the relationship and move on?...
and of course, it goes the other way....i have friends who are married or in relationships that are always into something...talking about "ain't nothing wrong w/ having friends"...i guess there is just something about the grass appearing to be greener...my thing is...pick some grass and stick with it...
it takes forever to build a relationship that lasts forever...
57 comments:
who knows?
2...what's up for lunch today?
Good Morning EVERYBODY!
Jillers could not have said it better, and I will
add some believe in the 'variety is the spice of life'.
Just playing Devil's Advocate but I have met those who
think that way enough times, regardless of relationship status.
Yeah, I think I remember my third or so ajc post,
way way back, discussing I had more, well, let's call
it 'possibilities' falling in my lap when I was married
(and therefore 'safe').
speaking of halle...
"Beauty? Let me tell you something — being thought of as a beautiful woman has spared me nothing in life. No heartache, no trouble. Love has been difficult. Beauty is essentially meaningless and it is always transitory."
- Halle Berry
qs2...coming from one that is smart and sexy (you)...very well said...
and to answer your question...let my sexy get me a seat at the table and let my smart keep me there...
yeah, smart beats 'sexy' everytime, the smart ones
can THINK sexy, even when the looks(as culturally perceived) are not necessarily OBVIOUS.
but the 'sexy' ones cannot not necessarily think Smart.
dayum...who knew?...
chin up, kid...
Cey, your stock just fell way down.
You fucked redd, say man what the fuck were you thinking?
At least now we know cey is a magnum man right redd?
I guess now we know who the first blog hit/run is right?
This is Anonymous signing off, disappointed
Yall got some drama going on over here, AGAIN????
What's up everybody. "Anonymous" sounds like he got a lot of hate in his blood. Convinced as always.
remind me to NEVER date reddgirl......chuckle(better than)
should put that 'date' in quotes
Reddgrl, can I take you out? appears you down for the "blog dawgs"
fyi...i removed redd's duplicate posts...
so did you know him before the blog?
bgrits...hush, girl, damn...we can talk about it...i mean she put it out there...she KNEW it was going to be discussed...and if i have unanswered questions, i'ma ask...
See, this the shit we be talkin bout.....y'all broads be givin up the goods on the first night and shit, then wanna get mad/hate when the nigga done with y'all ass....and if I'm not mistaken, Reddgrl, you ain't even been on the scene but bout a month or two, and you done gave up the puss already???
"there's some hoes in this house, there's some hoes in this house"
Bgrits, ain't you the one drawing social security, still livin at home????
never fails...
tune in daily
as the blog turns...
LMAO: 'as the blogs turns'; but did he get 'geiko insurance'?
Anonymous you sound kinda bitter, your wife/girlfriend must have been one of the "hoes" you like to refer to a lil too well. I see you crying behind the monitor boo. C77
DAm Anonymous...YOu are certainly bitter. Have you had bad experiences with women.. You such a hater. Know what If you tell who you are I'll tell who I am .. Hatera$$NICKA
oh, i see, said the blind man....that's what carmen was talking about when she said she had a blog secret....
Sexy Mutha.... Be careful when you put names out there like that... seems like you don't see what's going on, seems like you confused, a little nervous. Is everything aight with ya?????
anon and sexymutha are yall one in the same? I'm confused by the last post
cey...i like how ya' handling ya' shit, boy...gettin' back to the topic at hand....
but you know we want to hear your side of the story...
Hello Folks,
This is Stace. For those of you that came out on Friday, it was nice to meet you all!!
What up folk ... This is PIR ...
Reddgirl ... what the fugg is your malfunction? The ladies told me that you were a cool chick Friday night ... You are coming across as a bitter ass bia.... There was no need to throw shade on cey like that ... but then again after reading you all this time - I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
Cey .. I hope you magnum-ed up with this one here - she is straight shady ... I give you props for trying to be the bigger person here ... acting like the back and forth ain't about you ...
So um Cey ... how long have you had this problem ...you know 'picking the wrong women'? Seems to be a pattern...
Y'all have a good day ... I'm going to be over here in the corner laughing ... thanking God it wasn't me giving up the first piece of blog p*ssy...
ATL ... time to pay up ... I was right!!!!
you know...sometimes...you say something and the way it comes out is not the way it sounds in your head...or is not received like you thought it would be...or not taken in the way that it was meant...makes you say, "damn...why did i even fucking go there? i should have just shut the fuck up and left well enough alone."
or sometimes...you get what you think is a brilliant idea...
you concoct a plan and begin implementation...
then...somewhere along the way...shit goes VERY wrong...
most of the time...there isn't even any damage control for that ish either...you just out there stuck like chuck...looking like a g*t damn idiot...
there are life lessons in shit like that...ya' know?
you got me smilin'...
damn...i'm smilin' from the inside out...
like i'm walking around with sunshine in my pocket...
stars in my eyes...
and a song in my heart...
damn...
you got me smilin'...
2...preshate...cause yesterday...i damn sho didn't want no damn mickie dee's...
wow CSC, nice poem...
@ Suga - you waiting for more? chuckle
@Emotion: you going to tell us about this affair, or
ALMOST affair?
str8...waiting for you to post the answer to your own questions, playa...
anybody headed for centennial tomorrow?
@IVY - yeah, that's how it works, I mentioned my
way back ajc post the most serious threat to my
first marriage was a married woman I never touched,
but lunched with ALOT!
speaking of lunch............
Hello BLOG FAM,
Good Topic,
From experience dating a married man is not good for noone. Only bring PAIN!!!!
I heard Good Looks get the Man but the values of the woman keep the MAN.....
Reddgrl, thanks for nice evening on Friday. Sorry nite turn out BAD!!
hello, str8
i think it's essence...100p post...
Hello BLOG,
This is ESSENCE.. and yes, that was my 1 post for the day...
@emotion: thanks for all that clarification, I was ABOUT to post 'must be why you like to blog, almost
like cheatin'" and then I read down to your NEXT post,
hehuhauuhehhha (hopes that translates well),
just playin' with ya.. (and LMAO as well)
to answer str8 question...
what do i bring to a relationship?...i'm sexy AND i'm cool....
what baggage do i have?...i'm prone to demonstrate what crazy looks like on an ordinary day and to give said demonstration in living color...
you said you wouldn't hurt me
couldn't stand to see me cry...
but didn't you know
that you were stabbing my soul
with your deception and your lies?
one breath...
one heartbeat...
one moment...
i live one day at a time...
i stand and i am strong
in the beliefs
that i call mine...
i realize that i must walk this path alone...
without you by my side...
and i will always remember
that this is the day that my hope died...
i brushed away the tears...
i'm moving past the pain...
the sun is already shining...
through this bullshit summer rain...
as you turn and walk away...
don't think that i will follow...
you will miss this good thing...
and my phone will ring tomorrow...
@CSC: your phone's already ringing...
Daskrait - you are so sweet. Are you seeing someone special at the moment?
thx for the compliments...the love..the acknowledgements...
finding ways to exorcise the pain,
understanding that i cannot make you do anything
can be quite freeing in and of itself.
kindred souls feel my pain.
you will never know to what depths the
ocean of my heart flows,
uniting me with my destiny
never turning it's back on my
imaginings of better days
can't keep the words from flowing
know this...
to paraphrase from the end of THE HUNT FOR RED OCTOBER,
(both the book and the movie)
when the Sec of Defense says to the Russian Ambassador:
"dang, there is not yet ANOTHER married/taken woman hitting on Das, is there".
chuckle
Line is "Sergy, you haven't lost ANOTHER submarine have you"...I use it at work "Dang, you accountants are out of balance AGAIN"....LMAO
there is a hidden message in that last poem...can you find it?...
STR8.. R U still here.. i need to talk to U... sent me your email address.. ESSENCE
very good, hayze...
wassup people
- lerk
So married folks, is 'bloggin' cheating?
hi lerk!
now why did i think of the addams family?
so don't you think one opens themselves up to potential issues/opportunities? I agree, you shouldn't let it get to that point, but isn't that the case with ANYTHING - lunch dates and close contact with co-workers, meeting up with/still communicating with ex's? I am sure of those who DO 'cheat', they NEVER thought it would get to that point initially...so, married/commttd folks, does your S.O. know you are on this?
LOL hazyblue, almost had me, was planning the weekend,
then looked down, did not see casual, looked at calendar, figured out it MIGHT be Tuesday.
But I was ready.....for friday.
DAS stop ignoring the ladies questions????
did I or did I not yesterday VOTE for IGNORING
anonymous posters????
friend went to small claims court, as the plaintiff,
first thing the judge says is "It is my job to see
that both of you leave here unhappy". And my friend
thought: "what an excellent definition of democracy".
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