8.05.2004

pop quiz...

You don't have to actually answer the questions.

Just read straight through, and you'll get the point.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America contest.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winner for best actor and actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.

How did you do?

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz.. See how you do on this one:

1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.
6. Name half a dozen heroes whose stories have inspired you.

Easier?

The lesson:
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards.

They are the ones that care.

65 comments:

Anonymous said...

good morning miss CSC and the rest of the blog fam....This is so true. I never really thought about it but could not agree more. Have a wonderful day...SD

SexyCool said...

sd...what's up baby?

hayze...your last question from yesterday...fortunately, charlotte's family is from new orleans...he has made the decision to stay in the A...he is considering selling the house...but has not decided...

SexyCool said...

hayze...aw shucks...it's nothing...you are far too kind...but the that's not the correct response to a compliment, is it?...so i graciously say thank you...

i was listening to ryan on the way in this morning...i actually have a problem with the use of the term idol...now...i am not a bible thumper by any means...but when i think of the definition of the term idol and the first commandment...i get an uneasy feeling...

make sense?

SexyCool said...

my after work thingie...i only stayed about 45 minutes...we closed on two properties yesterday...had a celebratory gathering at a nearby watering hole...imagine their surprise to learn that i don't drink...and don't need to (ask frat about that one)...anyway...

i enjoyed two ice cold ones, anyway...sprites, that is...they had fabulous appetizers...i'll be visiting the rock bottom brewery again soon...but just for the food...

SexyCool said...

shug...great question...let me think on that one...

DasKrait said...

Don't know how CSC does it, closings/bloggings, missing anything?

oh good morning everyone,

suga, i might have thought you can be so mean sometimes
if i did not know your name (S/N) accurate or maybe it
is just because of my answer: probably first ex, we were
friends long before relationship, closest I have gotten
to friend/soulmate, and she helped me change direction in life, and in spite of being an ex, was probably the best thing that could have happened to me. we actually dated, broke up, and she came back about 6 months later
for longer term. What would be different? Can we say
who is in charge NOW?? chuckle ...oh, did i mention
great sex, the most honestly sexual person I have probably ever met. should i post this?

DasKrait said...

wise - 'honestly sexual' - she did not hide behind alot of trappings - my earlier expressed views of 'it is just sex, for crying out loud'...sure, BETTER when a loving relationship, but not absolutely required. VERY VERY adventuresome, certainly not a 'fuddy-duddy'.

SexyCool said...

hayze...i'm talking about my peeps from The Other Spot...TOS...Tau Omega Sigma...

DasKrait said...

I'd like to take a minute and perhaps clarify some
playful bantering going on here a few days ago.
I found Mia's blog while looking for a DearAbby at ajc.
The use of the word 'daunting' made me drill deeper.
Nice use of language, I read several days and than posted when she did a background check.
NEVER in any of my postings have I been looking for any kind of 'hookup' as I am very removed, in many ways, from the ATL dating scene.... I have met, and continue to meet, great people on-blogs, so any bantering is really just that, flirtatious bantering.

SexyCool said...

das...your disclaimer was not needed...you know that...has somebody started stalking you off-blog?...

DasKrait said...

csc - no, nothing like that, but i got a feeling
some may have gotten 'uncomfortable' with some things.

DasKrait said...

atl - must have been reading my mottos...chuckle

csc - no, no cyber stalking, it is when you come home
to find things re-arranged in your apt, THAT is
when it gets 'weird'....LOL

QS2 - yeah, chuckles, still think of some old INXS song
when you post, though.....

SexyCool said...

i learned a long time ago that you can't believe everything you see on tv...got into a fight...thought that i was going to be able to hit this chick in the head with a crescent wrench and knock her out...

imagine the look on my face when that bitch didn't go down...

DasKrait said...

qs2 - flirtatious bantering, have you learned Capricorns
loosen up as they age? chuckle..at least that is
what the 'forecast' says, and I have to agree with it.

DasKrait said...

punched some guy in the side of the head once, LONG ago,
damn near broke my knuckles. not what i saw in the westerns.......skulls are HARD.

SexyCool said...

greetings, cey...meant to put on my original post that this was part of an email that i received...

atl...we fought 'til we both got tired of fighting...we both ended up at the hospital getting stitches...

hayze...the ish was almost comical...i just KNEW i was about to knock that ass out and keep stepping...oh, well...

DasKrait said...

hey cey

qs2 - yeah, it improves in time, i've been there. chuckles LMAO

DasKrait said...

atl - you see UNCOMMON VALOR?
the con(Randall "Tex" Cobbs i think) pulled for a mission, been doing NOTHING but kung-fo exercises for years, some fresh kid tries to go-karate - "Boy, don't pull that kung-foo shit on ME".

SexyCool said...

enigma...i totally agree with what you said about valentines day...this is a commercialized holiday - one day out of the year - that has nothing whatsoever the success and satisfaction in a relationship...

if we have a fucked up relationship 364 days a year...valentines day is not going to mean anything...honor and celebrate and cherish me regularly...

i feel the same way about mother's day, father's day and christmas...so what?...i should only do nice shit for the people i love once a year...that's is bs...nothing wrong with recognizing these occasions...but if that's the only time you do something special...i think it's insincere...

it's over commercialized, over hyped societal crap...

SexyCool said...

so do weddings and funerals...

SexyCool said...

not hostile...passionate...

Anonymous said...

hey guys, ok this is a crazy fight story but here goes.. I was in about the second grade and was sick of this girl messing with me so we were going to battle after school. Every one went to the candy man and got their snacks to watch the fight. So here I am doing my thing and I kicked her in the stomach. She was leaning over hurt and I felt so bad that i started telling her I was sorry for hurting her. now how stupid was that. Anyway her brother did not like the fact that I had kicked her and chased me all the way home. I must have looked real silly anyway back to work.....SD

SexyCool said...
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SexyCool said...

yes...i remember the dopeman's...i had them in every color and even had a pair in purple leather...you couldn't tell me nuh'in....

Anonymous said...

"This is Teddy" cey what high school did you go to. My cousin went to Mcnair Middle in CP.

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" lol @ ATL you took that shit back with the Troops & BK's. I had a couple of pair of the Dopeman's back in the day. I remember pimpin some Fila boots too. lol

Anonymous said...

at teddy, I have a message for you, you are so lame!!!!!!!SD

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" lmao @ cey...not the Major Damage suits.
I grew up in Decatur, but I had 3 cousins that went through Mcnair, Banneker, & McClarin.

Anonymous said...

ATL- it was not funny while I was running...I felt like a track star : )SD

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" @ SD ... ask your friend "where in the hell is George High?"

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" I bet yall dont remember Pillow Bass? lol

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" ATL pillow bass were those Edwards J tapes that had all slow songs on them with the added bass lines.

Anonymous said...

"Teddy" cey you are clowning with the bartman..lol
I used to hit The Gate regularly back in high school.

Anonymous said...

Teddy- bullet wounds and all...lmao

Anonymous said...

Teddy- lmao @ ATL with Montrez....bullet wounds & all.

Anonymous said...

Alright, once again it's me
Kilo-Ali with positivity
?? so you got to hustle
Drug dealers ain't nothin but trouble
Do the crime, you gotta pay the price
What you gonna tell Jesus Christ
He don't smoke, and he don't get high
Where ?? after they die
Cause it's a sin to sell
Brother you can go to jail, you can go to hell
What about a brother be thinking he a pimp though
When he calls our mother a pimp hoe
Or his cousin, or his sister, or his auntie
Boy, you better learn to love the ladies
I think your slippin
But you think your pimp, pimp, pimpin
For a nickle and a dime, some uh y'all lost y'all mind

Anonymous said...

Yeah I remember Club 559. It was kinda tight in there but it was definetly crunk. "laughing" I remember cruisin Peachtree during those long summer nights just to meet chicks back in the day. Its funny because nobody down there had a destination....just sitting in traffic....lol. Teddy

Anonymous said...

well you can blame it on the lover in me
the heavyweight, cut up champion ALIII
in the hood i'm a menace
hold on, sit down, lemme talk, lemme finish
i get that ass
keep the camera rollin, im kinda fast
get all the girls
and i shock the world
why did humpty dumpty have to fall
cuz he was freakin off the wall
it be like that
when you be tryin to break that back
i give my number to the ladies
cuz i would love to love ya baby
when i'm around you i feel like this
a kiss is just a kiss

baby baby
ohhh work it on me
baby baby
i need your L-O-V-E
baby baby
baba baba
baby baby
and i want you to know that

Anonymous said...

At night I can't sleep, I toss and turn
Candle sticks in the dark, visions of bodies being burned
Four walls just staring at a nigga
I'm paranoid, sleeping with my finger on the trigger
My mother's always stressing I ain't living right
But I ain't going out without a fight
See, everytime my eyes close
I start sweating, and blood starts coming out my nose
It's somebody watchin' the Ak'
But I don't know who it is, so I'm watching my back
I can see him when I'm deep in the covers
When I awake I don't see the motherf**ker
He owns a black hat like I own
A black suit and a cane like my own
Some might say 'take a chill, B'
But f**k that shit, there's a nigga trying to kill me
I'm pumping in the clip when the wind blows
Every twenty seconds got me peeping out my window
Investigating the joint for traps
Checking my telephone for taps
I'm staring at the want ad of the corner
It's f**ked up when your mind is playing tricks on you

DasKrait said...

hi Emotion, you only have one child? Must be Buckley with three, get you two confused all the time. I think
you may have gotten 'jumped' on so 'badly'(psuedo affair) since MAYBE some remember your early posts here, as perhaps they remember mine as well....chuckle.

Yeah, sidebar: anyone notice that ajc pulled the link
to this site in csc's post friday? must be why DexterKerry Cattle guy not here, saving into faves might have been 'difficult'.

there are females on this blog that were strippin' on the interstate. speakin' up? chuckle

what happened to the days when all you needed at school
was a knife? Some kid at summer BAND CAMP no less accidentally shot another band member? on the news
past couple of days. WTH?

Anonymous said...

@ cey the name "Earl Chambers" sounds familiar to me. Did you play for Banneker? We didnt play yall "Tucker" but if I remember correctly yall play Lithonia, or a couple of Dekalb school. But then that also depends on what year you came out of there. Teddy

Anonymous said...

Skeegee if you cant remember then ummmm "yeah" somebody got some pics somewhere. lol

Anonymous said...

Plyers ball, Players ball....I remember those days!!! SD

DasKrait said...

emotion - correction - I do not get you and Buckley
confused, I get the content of some of your posts
confused, as you know she/you on the same wavelength.

SexyCool said...

hayze...i've learned that you can never predict where the blog will go...

Anonymous said...
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SexyCool said...

anonymous...i will be the last person to attempt to limit free speech...however...i don't think anyone here is interested in responding to your post and it will be removed...

now...back to our regularly scheduled programming...

DasKrait said...

rhetorical question: Is that PURPLE?...LOL

Anonymous said...

hey Fam, it is really coming down out there so please be safe as you head out of the office this eve. SD

SexyCool said...

sd...that is so wierd...i'm at home in jonesboro this afternoon and the sun is shining...

Anonymous said...

csc-must be nice....r u usually home this early? Whats up with you any way Miss Lady? SD

DasKrait said...

@emotion - that a serious question? you/buckley have come out with that.

SexyCool said...

left work early...couldn't get a dentist appointment...wanted to come home, lie down and watch oprah...dentist appointment is next week...

as for what's up with me...i am, as teddy would say, 'ghud'...in fact, all is 'ghud'...

Anonymous said...

CSC-cool cool, just had not heard from you in a while. Checking up on ya pimpin' : )SD I have been busy this week girl...busy busy busy

SexyCool said...

sd...pimpin' IS tax free!!!...laughing...

Anonymous said...

CSC- u r right about that one : )SD

SexyCool said...

skegee...girl, you don't just buy the gun then not learn to use it...

some of my folks are going to go with me to help me pick out one and teach me to use it...

some of our fellow lady bloggers are very good with guns...and i too, one day...will be very good with one...

SexyCool said...

atl says a shotgun might have too much kick for a woman...

one of my other friends says that just the cocking of a shotgun is enough to stop someone dead in their tracks...literally...

DasKrait said...

amen to atl as well,
same thing i wanted to say, you must be ready to use it.

SexyCool said...

hayze...ya' got mail...

SexyCool said...

cey...did you write that? OR did you hear that somewhere?....

i'm asking for a reason...

SexyCool said...

hayze..i hit ya' back...two times...

Anonymous said...

HELLO BLOG FAM,
CSC, I want you to know how much I enjoy reading your topics. I vote you the next BLOG leader. Those last questions are good self-evaluation.

shout out to everyone!

cey, what happen to reddgrl?

Oh, forgot, this ESSENCE

SexyCool said...

cey...i want to take that post and break it down and use it in a different way...

but when i do that...i want to be sure that i am crediting the right source...

SexyCool said...

hayze...all i can say is DAYUUUUUMMMMM!!!

and yes...it's beautiful when things come full circle...